The default state for humans is calmness, ie. when things are humming along.
Anger, annoyance and frustration are not accepted by us as the default state.
They result when things stop humming along and we are not prepared for them.

For some reason we tend to blame or fault someone or something when things
are not humming along. And this only takes us further away from the default state.

The default state for the universe is that things don’t always hum along.
If we could learn to understand this universal default state it would help us maintain
our default state even when things stop humming.