Why does the term “It’s your fault” exist? It’s as if we are accused of owning errors.
It is not my fault or your fault, it is a fault. It is just a flaw that has occurred during the process. It doesn’t have an owner, per se. But it does have a person or persons that are responsible for avoiding or rectifying this fault.
Flaws occur and faults happen, and they will always happen but attributing blame for this occurrence only serves to drive the cause or causes of the fault underground.
People don’t cause faults, faulty thinking creates them. Blaming someone for faulty thinking, is faulty thinking in my view. Helping each other out of our faulty thinking is why I believe we exist.