Monthly Archives: September 2011

Why Relationships Fail

Ask someone today why their relationship failed and they will usually come back with the well worn cliché “We grew apart”. Saying that we grew apart is a kin to saying “it fell out of the sky!” when asked why … Continue reading

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Complain Responsibly

I have just realised that the last 24 years of seeking an apology from my mum was illegitimate. Illegitimate, because of the error in the process. Instead of confronting her privately with my dispute I confronted her in front of … Continue reading

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Ban Rethink Perfect

I received my first call to silence me and my discussions from a post from Kim Jones on the Edward de Bono Society: http://www.debonosociety.com/forum/topics/my-engagement-proposal?commentId=2696260%3AComment%3A50933&xg_source=msg_com_forum “What you guys are into is "meta-discussion". In other words, you get your kicks by discussing … Continue reading

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One Lie and 24 Yeras to Resolve it

This is the agreement I will try get with my mum. That my apology to her was that I am sorry for confronting her in front of my dad and her apology to me was that she is sorry for … Continue reading

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Impose Verses Propose

Thanks Kim for the contribution it really has allowed me to see more clearly why it was so important for me at the time, and a chance to explain it now. As I mentioned when you rephrased your question willingly … Continue reading

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