Monthly Archives: September 2011

Understandable verses Acceptable

Let’s make it clear that I think that any form of aggression is inappropiate and unacceptable. Understandable yes, acceptable no!

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Free Speech

There is nothing “Free” about Andrew Bolt! He is paid by “professional” newspaper publishers to write what they happily serve up to their readers daily so that they can “sell” more papers. It is the publishers’ “job” to make sure that … Continue reading

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The 10 Demandments

1. You can’t keep doing this! 2. I’m sick of this! 3. You should know better! 4. How many times to I have to tell you! 5. You can’t always think that you’re always right all the time! 6. You … Continue reading

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The First Demand is the Deepest

I ran into an old flame on Twitter the other day and while conversing I was hit with what I considered was a demand i.e. “You should focus on idealising the love not the lover”. Now the question is how … Continue reading

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Expecting Perfection

I think we get aggressive towards a person when we expect perfection from them and  returning aggression makes me the same. Getting an agreement to help each other out of our unresonalable expectations (demands) is paramount to moving forward in a … Continue reading

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Demands and Demanding

It seems that we all suffer from having demands and imposing our demands upon others and especially within a relationship. How do we know when we are being demanded of? Simple, just listen out for the tone, and how adjustable, … Continue reading

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Anti-jealousy

I came up with an idea that I call Anti-jealousy which goes something like this: Just because I am with the girl of my dreams does not mean that she is my perfect match or I her’s. So I would … Continue reading

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