Monthly Archives: February 2014

In a world of egos duelling and where the other seems to be the one to blame for an issue or dispute that arises, it is nice to know that there is an alternative way. Imagine we had an agreement … Continue reading →

So how is it that nobody can cause a problem? Well, I was speaking to a person that works for a nameless multinational company with 8,000 staff and they had just completed a huge change over in systems. Now she tells … Continue reading →

I think that relationships and the conversations that we have are all about identifying where we disagree/agree on a particular point. By identifying what, how and why we disagree helps us form new and more suitable thinking for that topic in our … Continue reading →

I learnt two things tonight, 1. To understand, more clearly, the conformism mechanism on the mating cycle 2. Learn how to explain when I stop expecting. 1. First learning: I think the conformism mechanism is driven by fear, in that … Continue reading →

What is the difference between Advice and Feedback Andrew’s Answer: Advice for me is without understanding the personal problem but giving “in my situation…” Whereas feedback for me is that personal “advice” tailored to ones problem?! Eg. A feedback loop, … Continue reading →

It seems to me that there are two approaches or mediums for communicating, direct and indirect. Direct being to go direct the the person or organisation that one has the problem or issue with and indirect to go behind the … Continue reading →

I am trying to explode/explore this thought further? Men donate their DNA (apparently through their sperm) Women receive/accept DNA (apparently through men’s sperm) Women (unless they are raped) choose whose DNA they accept Men nominate who they would like to … Continue reading →

The biggest cause of abuse is supposedly being abused. The biggest cause of expectations is being expected of. I think expectations of others is an abuse. Just because everyone does it does not make it acceptable, in my view.

Continued from my previous post: To Commit or Not to Commit that is the Expectation Unhappy Valentines day. The average length of a marriage in Australia is 8.7 years. more. These are some of my thoughts on what is causing … Continue reading →

“To commit” or to “make a commitment” seem to be the buzz phrases of most single women out to “trap” her man. When will they get it? When will they realise that the biggest cause of relationship failure is, in … Continue reading →