Monthly Archives: February 2014

Duelling Egos

In a world of egos duelling and where the other seems to be the one to blame for an issue or dispute that arises, it is nice to know that there is an alternative way. Imagine we had an agreement … Continue reading

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Nobody Caused the Problem

So how is it that nobody can cause a problem? Well, I was speaking to a person that works for a nameless multinational company with 8,000 staff and they had just completed a huge change over in systems. Now she tells … Continue reading

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Identifying with Your Identity

I think that relationships and the conversations that we have are all about identifying where we disagree/agree on a particular point. By identifying what, how and why we disagree helps us form new and more suitable thinking for that topic in our … Continue reading

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Two things I Learnt Tonight

I learnt two things tonight, 1. To understand, more clearly, the conformism mechanism on the mating cycle 2. Learn how to explain when I stop expecting. 1. First learning: I think the conformism mechanism is driven by fear, in that … Continue reading

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Advice Vs Feedback

What is the difference between Advice and Feedback Andrew’s Answer: Advice for me is without understanding the personal problem but giving “in my situation…” Whereas feedback for me is that personal “advice” tailored to ones problem?! Eg. A feedback loop, … Continue reading

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Direct (blue) and Indirect (Red) Communication Mediums

It seems to me that there are two approaches or mediums for communicating, direct and indirect. Direct being to go direct the the person or organisation that one has the problem or issue with and indirect to go behind the … Continue reading

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re Donating and Accepting DNA/Sperm

I am trying to explode/explore this thought further? Men donate their DNA (apparently through their sperm) Women receive/accept DNA (apparently through men’s sperm) Women (unless they are raped) choose whose DNA they accept Men nominate who they would like to … Continue reading

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