The Irony is that some women can still spend so much time and effort
planning their wedding day or pay fortune for someone else to plan it.
But when I mention planning for perfect relations, as well, they
seem to balk at the word “plan”, as though it will take away something
from their relationship rather than add to it. On the one hand they are
looking for stability, security and commitment in their relationship but
on the other they expect spontaneity and think that they can’t get that
with a “plan”. I think it is still possible to have both and that planning
can open up a relationship to so much more than we ever thought we
could have.