The biggest cause of abuse is supposedly being abused. The biggest cause of expectations
is being expected of. I think expectations of others is an abuse.
Just because everyone does it does not make it acceptable, in my view.
The biggest cause of abuse is supposedly being abused. The biggest cause of expectations
is being expected of. I think expectations of others is an abuse.
Just because everyone does it does not make it acceptable, in my view.
I think every time we expect of another, it damages both, in that the expectation skews their behaviour towards coercion as opposed to amicableness.
Whereas I think the goal should be a progression to being amicable towards each other, where neither expects any particular outcome, other than one that both can agree upon.
Yep, easier said than done, but possible I think, and worth aiming for.
I think that expecting from someone else could be called bullying and is unacceptable and shouldn’t just be laughed off.