My brother Steve Sherlock and I have just agreed on a new pact:
We are still considering anger.
This means that we neither accept or reject such behavior….

We are not sure if we are responsible for it or not, or if anger is acceptable or not.

We do believe that we both have a line that can be crossed no matter how aware we are of this line. But that understanding our line can help.

And that the best way we consider to deal with this issue of anger is to inform others what we are considering, and see what they consider about it too, maybe, and possibly form a pact or agreement on it, upfront, before we cross the other’s line.