Category Archives: Agreements

So, how do we become more objective (less subjective)? I think it is simple, just start objecting! Yes, that’s right…..object…..to what the extreme or far right and left are saying and doing, and we will find the object. IF the … Continue reading →

Ask anyone in the world if they believe we all should be accountable and responsible and they will answer yes. So, why is there such a lack of accountability and responsibility in the world? I guess there are two reasons … Continue reading →

I think that the men that have ever used the derogatory terms such as “slut”, “whore”, “tart” or “tramp” and even “liar” are obviously “suckers”, victims of their own ignorance and stupidity. As the saying goes “one born every minute”.

The other day, I heard someone mention that old cliché of how they reacted when they felt “judged”. And it got me thinking about this word and this is what has transpired. First, my definition of what the purpose of … Continue reading →

Love, creativity and innovation are a Negotiation process….where we negotiate with, ourself and each other…to save, protect and try…..ideas, understandings and proposals. Creating, finding and maintaining…a safe physical, emotional and intellectual…environment to undertake such negotiations is imperative in my view, … Continue reading →

Male that: Never gets angry Never tells bullshit Will always help you within an hour when asked And will give an acceptable apology when he doesn’t keep 1,2 & 3 He will help you understand him and believes that creating … Continue reading →

It seems to me that we all lie to a lesser or greater degree, and really, I don’t see this as a major problem. Let him/her that does not lie cast the first stone. But what I do see as … Continue reading →

I just realised the other day that the counter balance on this diagram is now called a Keel and it is used to keep the relationship on an “Even Keel” At present I continue to slip over into an uneven keel … Continue reading →

I think love/relationships is all about treating each other carefully and being especially careful about our reactions. Using Created Understandings or more commonly called “agreements” to assist in this process. Preparing for the failure or lack of perfection during this … Continue reading →