Category Archives: Relationships

Rethink Perfect – Why Relationships Fail

I think relationships fail because one or both people use anger to indicate an issue and also use anger to try solve it. For me anger (in its various forms and levels) maybe is understandable, to some degree as we come … Continue reading

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Bathing in Biases

You know, it seems to me that we might not be quite aware of it, but we all could be bathing in our own and everyone else’s biases and not even realize it. My guess is that we have this … Continue reading

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The Third Reality

What about this? I think that there are two types of reality, yours and mine. There may be more but that would fall under the realm of either yours or my reality, in my view (or reality). I think the … Continue reading

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Fear of being Converted & of Converting

To me the converting of others is understandable but not acceptable. “Don’t you think…” “Why do you always….” “You should know better….” “When are you going to …..” These are all examples of someone trying to convert the other. Whether … Continue reading

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Forgive My Misnomer

“I forgive you” could be one of the biggest misnomers ever created by a perpetrator posing as a victim. Why? Because, I believe, that most disputes occur before we have gotten agreements on how we treat each other. In other … Continue reading

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Is Life is an Experiment?

I was speaking with a couple the other night and I told them that I had only had the one relationship in my life and that one was based on an agreement that it would serve as an experiment for testing my … Continue reading

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“It’s all about Communication”

This statement would have to be the most over used and missunderstood statement in the context of relationships, to me. In other words it has simply become a cliché. Of course communication is imperative to a relationship afterall, isn’t that … Continue reading

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