Monthly Archives: June 2011

Women!

My mother complains to me about her harrowing memories of her step father tormenting her and beating her mother (aggression). She also once complained that she did not have a relationship with my father as he didn’t talk to her (withdrawal). For 26 … Continue reading

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Man and Mammals

What makes us different than other mammals? Maybe it is our knowledge of our mortality and of our ability to choose to procreate. Of course a mammal is aware that if it zags when it should of zigged it could … Continue reading

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My Mating Treaty

Single 50 yo male, looking for female between 30 to 40 who is willing to be responsible for her relating as I am. i.e. Willing to seek and give an Acceptable Apology when you or I lose our cool. Willing to … Continue reading

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Unacceptable and Acceptable Apologies

What is wrong with this? “I am sorry I got angry, it is just that time of the month!” And “I am sorry I got angry, it was my male hormones!” They are both unacceptable to me as an apology … Continue reading

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The Power of Conversation for Creativity

My definition of conversation is to convert my concepts, through feedback, into agreements and possible solutions to problems. So basically I am saying that conversing can be one of the best tool for assisting creativity. Now I happen to have proof … Continue reading

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How the Smallest Words Can Cause the Biggest Problems

The Statement: “It is a religious problem!” If we prefix it with “I think …” so it now becomes “I think it is a religious problem”, then, in my view, it changes the whole complexion of the statement. Now, I would feel confident … Continue reading

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How I got to this Point

It would be remiss of me to continue if I did not mention how I got to this point in my thinking. My heartfelt thanks goes out to my “ex”. Not my ex-wife but more so my ex-perimental relationship. It … Continue reading

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