I can only speak for myself but what keeps me interested in a relationship is that we would have an equal and opposite amount of diverging views as we would have converging views.
Like that of a double helix, we would continuously wrap around each other even though, at times we are moving away from each other.
Anything less than this dance and I would also quickly lose interest, drowning in the obvious obsequiousness of false acceptance.
This was my reply to this post on Facebook