Author Archives: Rethink Perfect - Desmond Sherlock

Suckers

I think that the men that have ever used the derogatory terms such as “slut”, “whore”, “tart” or “tramp” and even “liar” are obviously “suckers”, victims of their own ignorance and stupidity. As the saying goes “one born every minute”.

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Rethink Our Final Judgement

The other day, I heard someone mention that old cliché of how they reacted when they felt “judged”. And it got me thinking about this word and this is what has transpired. First, my definition of what the purpose of … Continue reading

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Love, Creativity & Innovation are a Negotiation Process….

Love, creativity and innovation are a Negotiation process….where we negotiate with, ourself and each other…to save, protect and try…..ideas, understandings and proposals. Creating, finding and maintaining…a safe physical, emotional and intellectual…environment to undertake such negotiations is imperative in my view, … Continue reading

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My Relationship Resume 

Male that: Never gets angry Never tells bullshit Will always help you within an hour when asked And will give an acceptable apology when he doesn’t keep 1,2 & 3 He will help you understand him and believes that creating … Continue reading

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3 Minute Lie & Apology

It seems to me that we all lie to a lesser or greater degree, and really, I don’t see this as a major problem. Let him/her that does not lie cast the first stone. But what I do see as … Continue reading

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Uneven Keel

I just realised the other day that the counter balance on this diagram is now called a Keel and it is used to keep the relationship on an “Even Keel” At present I continue to slip over into an uneven keel … Continue reading

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Created Understandings

I think love/relationships is all about treating each other carefully and being especially careful about our reactions. Using Created Understandings or more commonly called “agreements” to assist in this process. Preparing for the failure or lack of perfection during this … Continue reading

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