Author Archives: Rethink Perfect - Desmond Sherlock

How to Create an Understanding….Together

Talk a lot and make it up as you go along………..

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Create an Understanding

Why try to understand each other? Probably a question you have never asked yourself. A lot seems to be written about understanding ourselves and each other but for what reason? I say it is far more important to “create an understanding” … Continue reading

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Anger Responsibly

The Drink & Drive Responsibly campaigns in Australia have been very successful, helping in part to reduce the road deaths by a whopping 1000%. From: 43/100k vehicles in 1980 down to 4.5/100k in 2014 Possibly kicking off in Victoria, in the 1980’s, with the … Continue reading

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Destiny V’s Delusion

It seems to me that we spend our lives in a constant state of participating in either our destiny or a delusion. So, how can we tell whether this is part of our destiny or our delusion? When we actively set out to prove our delusion, maybe. Ask anyone … Continue reading

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Now it’s…Up to You!

What about this for an agreement? That we consider that a conversation or discussion is like it is a tennis match. That there has to be always a server and a receiver. Both responsible for sending the ball or proposal … Continue reading

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Relationship Secret

Could the secret to a successful relationship be as simple as making an agreement to help each other understand each other and give an acceptable apology when we get frustrated and annoyed by the process? That is not blame the … Continue reading

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Allowing Vs Accept

This is probably the most complex thought that I have ever had, that is, being able to see the difference between allowing and accepting something. What is the difference you may ask? Well to allow something or someone does  not … Continue reading

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Courtship & Royal Tennis

Here is a bit of fun. I would like to draw reference to the analogy of the invention of tennis for the English court (the palace of a king or queen) and how we pursue our mate in our mating … Continue reading

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Licensed to Thrill! How an Insurance Startup Became Licensed in 50 States.

While thinking of some titles for this article the first one that came to mind was: Walking with dinosaurs. I know that it’s a bit rude to refer to the insurance industry as being older than the St… Source: Licensed … Continue reading

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Up to Two

The saying “up to you” seems to be a common phrase in certain societies. It is a curious saying for me as when one is in a relationship or partnership with someone else it is mostly up to two not … Continue reading

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