Category Archives: Agreements

Considering Anger

My brother Steve Sherlock and I have just agreed on a new pact: We are still considering anger. This means that we neither accept or reject such behavior…. We are not sure if we are responsible for it or not, … Continue reading

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My Letter to Sex Discrimination Commissioner in Australia

Att Elizabeth Broderick – Sex Discrimination Commissioner Hi Elizabeth, heard some of your speech today and thought I would just let you know if you want a change in attitudes to domestic violence you could already change 2 things: Change the name from … Continue reading

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Shocked

From now on when you hear me raving about something, suggest that I sound shocked. I think shocked is another form of anger dressed up. ie like annoyed, frustrated,disappointed, distressed, shocked. All to try rationalise away my anger into some acceptable … Continue reading

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Introduction – Terms of Engagement

DECARRT is the name of the terms of engagement manual for our company, Pablow Inc. It is an acronym for the seven terms or steps that we believe contribute to a better environment for our team and ultimately better service and … Continue reading

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Crossing My Line

Some fifteen years ago I had my one and only relationship and it was an experiment. So, whereas most people have an ex-wife or ex-husband, I have an ex-periment. It lasted for two years and the agreement made for this experiment … Continue reading

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Nose Bleed

I heard a new saying yesterday, “nose bleed”. Where someone will tell me that they are having a nose bleed when I talk too much or too deeply. I love it! and think it is a great way to let … Continue reading

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Email to Emma Alberici on ABC’s Latline

Dear Emma just thought I would give you my view on domestic violence. If we stopped calling it Domestic Violence and simply referred to it as domestic abuse we could solve this problem, in my view. Domestic violence comes from … Continue reading

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Me Myself & I

  I don’t think I can speak for you or them, us or we, unless you or them agree to it before hand. That just leaves me, myself and I to speak and think for. That should make my life … Continue reading

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Two Promises for Now – Why Agreements are Better than Compromises

My definition for an agreement is: Two promises for now. My definition for a compromise is: Two promises forever (or for any time longer or shorter than “now”). A contract is a example of trying to make an agreement last … Continue reading

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Why We Stand Up for Stepping UP

After stepping up and putting forward, our value statement for our business, ie We stand up for stepping up, I asked Steve, my bro and business partner, why do we do this and he answered on Skype: “Because without stepping up … Continue reading

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