Category Archives: Agreements

We might all claim that we are more half full thinkers than half empty. I guess this is half of the problem. But how does this type of thinking translate into conversation? What about this? When we have half empty thinking … Continue reading →

· So we all know that murder is understandable but not acceptable (funny in this case it is the “understandable” part that is a problem in our thinking. This is because a judge will take into account the circumstance of the murder … Continue reading →

The problem with the human mating cycle is that we are looking for somebody, when, in my view we should be looking for somemind!

Why do we converse? Is it for our own benefit or for others? It is a tough question but I think I have the answer. I converse to convert my ideas or concepts using other people’s feedback. So if I … Continue reading →

Why I think that most relationships are stuffed

People are getting mad and going mad in hoards. I reckon that if you listen to how a person speaks and you can detect and measure how mad a person is. A friend of mine told me yesterday, “My previous … Continue reading →

What about this: I propose that conversation is “A” learning process by which we convert our own concepts, through other people’s feedback, into FUTURE agreements. (and vice versa) That the feedback we receive today may take up to 5, 10 … Continue reading →

Let me run this by you. Before we get angry or sad, we get resentment. For example, say a driver in a car does not give way to us. We can get 2 types of resentment from this experience. 1. … Continue reading →

Life is like the romance in the Titanic Movie, most couples end up in deep water, thrash about, freeze and then sink.

It seems like that these days we are bombarded with thousands of daily messages to try sell us something. From ideas to products and services. One idea that I think we have all been sold is the idea of righteous … Continue reading →