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Rethink Perfect – The game the whole family can play.

Here are the the simple rules for the game. Person A makes a statement or opinion. If person B does not accept or agree with it person A can ask why and then offers to rethink what they iniatially thought … Continue reading

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Agreement Pyramid

Built upon the foundation of how we want to be treated, I believe that with just 5 simple agreements all things are possible in both personal & business relationships. The five agreements go like this. 1. That all agreements are … Continue reading

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Dez and the Art of Conversation

A study of 3 choices in relating and what “conversation” is really for. Twenty two years ago I asked a young woman, that I worked with, what a conversation was for and her half joking reply was “Your f#%ked!” I … Continue reading

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Argeement/Argument Verses Promise/Complaint

How can we have happy personal & business relationships if we don’t even have a definition for the term Agreement? Yes that is right an agreement on what Agreement means! I think that you would be surprised how little you … Continue reading

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Argument Agreement

Hi Nan, my question about agreement was a more general one but as you are a woman & I am a man it still applies to us too. The funny thing about this is that I will be trying to … Continue reading

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Mating Cycle or Sexual Cycle

Don’t confuse the two. If a man initiates it is a sexual cycle. If a woman initiates it could be one or the other & the man needs to investigate. They don’t call me Sherlock for nothing

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Investigating Emotional Breadcrumbs

I wonder if this is my destiny. To expound the virtues of investigation & my last name happens to be Sherlock? Ha!  My youngest brother & I have been spending some quality time lately with our older brother in counselling. Unusual?  Well… … Continue reading

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I agree with Richard Dawkins

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6 points to persuasion

ie 6 points to persuasion from Scientific Americian Mind Magazine Reciprocicty – we feel obligated to return favors Liking – we have a tendancy to say yes to people we like Scaricity – We place more value on things that are … Continue reading

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Taking Sides & Failure to Investigate

Funny, it seems that people that take sides fail to investigate. and people that fail to investigate end up taking sides.

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