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How to make the “perfect” agreement…Rethink Perfect!

Opponents learn and agree to use Rethink Perfect. Opponents first find the point where they do agree, by: Opponent A states her point and opponent B states that he doesn’t agree. Opponent A asks why and if she does not agree … Continue reading

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Rethink Perfect. In search of the Agreement Point

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Rethink Perfect. Finding the point of agreement

It seems like we focus more on the points that we disagree on. I suggest we find the point at which we agree & then rethink from there. I would suggest that our first Agreement Point is that: We are … Continue reading

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Rethink Perfect – The game the whole family can play.

Here are the the simple rules for the game. Person A makes a statement or opinion. If person B does not accept or agree with it person A can ask why and then offers to rethink what they iniatially thought … Continue reading

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Agreement Pyramid

Built upon the foundation of how we want to be treated, I believe that with just 5 simple agreements all things are possible in both personal & business relationships. The five agreements go like this. 1. That all agreements are … Continue reading

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Dez and the Art of Conversation

A study of 3 choices in relating and what “conversation” is really for. Twenty two years ago I asked a young woman, that I worked with, what a conversation was for and her half joking reply was “Your f#%ked!” I … Continue reading

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Argeement/Argument Verses Promise/Complaint

How can we have happy personal & business relationships if we don’t even have a definition for the term Agreement? Yes that is right an agreement on what Agreement means! I think that you would be surprised how little you … Continue reading

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