Category Archives: Agreements

Speaking with a mate yesterday and we compared philosophies on the mating cycle. Mine was that aiming to have sex with every attractive woman can effect what we are willing to say during the process. My mate’s response was that he … Continue reading →

I was speaking with my brother Steve the other day and he reckons that although women generally will not initiate conversation directly with a man that they will tend to do it indirectly using their eyes, a smile or some other … Continue reading →

What we cannot identify as a disagreement is an ‘agreement’ by default, that’s all.

Everyone seems to talk about the merits of the team and teaming up, running of a dynamic team etc. But how do we deal with the team within the team, ie when members team up against a team member or other … Continue reading →

The team within the team can be a very powerful thing and can benefit or disrupt an organisation or relationship entity. Imagine three in a team. One decides, based on sound evidence, that this is the direction that they, as a … Continue reading →

Why is that that most people, that I ask, seem to think that anger is acceptable? But when I ask them if domestic violence is acceptable I have not found one taker. Yet domestic violence is only the symptom or … Continue reading →

If you ‘accept a person for who they are’ (their anger included), then you’ll expect them to accept you and your anger also. And, to me, you’ll both receive what you ultimately accept, your anger included.

What about this? We can’t fix or resolve a disagreement (resulting in a dispute) any more than we can’t fix or resolve a plane crash and the 300 people that were killed in the crash. We can’t resolve or rectify … Continue reading →

Imagine that two people agreed that their anger was understandable but not acceptable. That is, they could appreciate the other’s anger and their own but not find them acceptable? That could be stage one to the start of  “the test … Continue reading →

What is an Identificationship? A lot of people spend part of their lives complaining about being deceived or lied to, abused or judged. But what if you had a relationship/friendship/partnership where you both have agreed to be responsible for what you … Continue reading →