Category Archives: Agreements

“I can relate with that” can just as easily be substituted with “I can identify with that”. But what does “relate” mean? What does it mean when she says we need to relate more. Relate what, in this case? “Relate” in … Continue reading →

Being angry is like shitting in one’s pants……understandable but not acceptable. Most of us, unfortunately, are not house trained.

Imagine using the layout of the underground as a metaphor for our brains and the learning process. However, also imagine that we did not have this plan above to help us and we needed to map the routes and locations ourselves. There … Continue reading →

To me, blaming and being angry go hand in hand. Most of us woudl agree, in the cold light of day, that blaming is not acceptable, along with the resentment and anger that accompanies it. In my view most of … Continue reading →

People will happily follow the loser and think nothing of it, but when it comes to leading the winner it becomes all too hard. I guess that explains,  when it comes to startups, why there are far, far more losers … Continue reading →

In a world of egos duelling and where the other seems to be the one to blame for an issue or dispute that arises, it is nice to know that there is an alternative way. Imagine we had an agreement … Continue reading →

So how is it that nobody can cause a problem? Well, I was speaking to a person that works for a nameless multinational company with 8,000 staff and they had just completed a huge change over in systems. Now she tells … Continue reading →

I think that relationships and the conversations that we have are all about identifying where we disagree/agree on a particular point. By identifying what, how and why we disagree helps us form new and more suitable thinking for that topic in our … Continue reading →

I learnt two things tonight, 1. To understand, more clearly, the conformism mechanism on the mating cycle 2. Learn how to explain when I stop expecting. 1. First learning: I think the conformism mechanism is driven by fear, in that … Continue reading →

What is the difference between Advice and Feedback Andrew’s Answer: Advice for me is without understanding the personal problem but giving “in my situation…” Whereas feedback for me is that personal “advice” tailored to ones problem?! Eg. A feedback loop, … Continue reading →