Category Archives: Agreements

I ran into an old flame on Twitter the other day and while conversing I was hit with what I considered was a demand i.e. “You should focus on idealising the love not the lover”. Now the question is how … Continue reading →

I think we get aggressive towards a person when we expect perfection from them and  returning aggression makes me the same. Getting an agreement to help each other out of our unresonalable expectations (demands) is paramount to moving forward in a … Continue reading →

It seems that we all suffer from having demands and imposing our demands upon others and especially within a relationship. How do we know when we are being demanded of? Simple, just listen out for the tone, and how adjustable, … Continue reading →

I came up with an idea that I call Anti-jealousy which goes something like this: Just because I am with the girl of my dreams does not mean that she is my perfect match or I her’s. So I would … Continue reading →

Ask someone today why their relationship failed and they will usually come back with the well worn cliché “We grew apart”. Saying that we grew apart is a kin to saying “it fell out of the sky!” when asked why … Continue reading →

I have just realised that the last 24 years of seeking an apology from my mum was illegitimate. Illegitimate, because of the error in the process. Instead of confronting her privately with my dispute I confronted her in front of … Continue reading →

I received my first call to silence me and my discussions from a post from Kim Jones on the Edward de Bono Society: http://www.debonosociety.com/forum/topics/my-engagement-proposal?commentId=2696260%3AComment%3A50933&xg_source=msg_com_forum “What you guys are into is "meta-discussion". In other words, you get your kicks by discussing … Continue reading →

This is the agreement I will try get with my mum. That my apology to her was that I am sorry for confronting her in front of my dad and her apology to me was that she is sorry for … Continue reading →

Thanks Kim for the contribution it really has allowed me to see more clearly why it was so important for me at the time, and a chance to explain it now. As I mentioned when you rephrased your question willingly … Continue reading →

There are over 300 road rules in Australia and they are generally pretty standard across the country. Obviously the most important rules are that we drive on the left side of the road, stop at red lights and travel at … Continue reading →