Author Archives: Rethink Perfect - Desmond Sherlock

Up to Two

The saying “up to you” seems to be a common phrase in certain societies. It is a curious saying for me as when one is in a relationship or partnership with someone else it is mostly up to two not … Continue reading

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Love Singularity

A singularity is so called, as defined by Elon Musk, that “when formed the outcome is potentially so powerful that the resulting effect is unpredictable”. Could “love” be a singularity and be as simple as having a similar level of understanding … Continue reading

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Cynic or Sucker

Cynic or sucker… but sure as hell we are not going to get it perfect, so it’s our choice. I would probably class myself as a cynic, erring on the cautious, but I  can be a sucker for some things like … Continue reading

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Chain of Command 

A simple method to reducing anger is to be prepared and consider going higher in the chain of command. So, if one has a dispute with some service provider then simply let them know and if it is not satisfactorily … Continue reading

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Going Ape-shit

So, why does it seem to be so tempting to use ANGER to identify that we have a problem? The answer is maybe because it goes viral causing a raucousness around that angry person. Like a baby crying, or a … Continue reading

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Anger v Agree

If a person has relied on anger to get what they have wanted all their life then it is likely they will have a bunch of tools in place to make sure they don’t lose it.The irony is that they … Continue reading

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Growing Pains

Growth, to me, is just about having certain expectations and making preparations for them. And maybe, as soon as our expectations are exceeding our preparations by too much, we start suffering irritation and pain and have four choices: Get angry-mad, Get … Continue reading

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Problem Solved!

I reckon a relationship (personal, in this case but could apply to business also) is not so much about having fun together but is more for seeing how well we would go about solving problems together. Imagine, I personally solve … Continue reading

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Keeping a Relationship Interesting

I can only speak for myself but what keeps me interested in a relationship is that we would have an equal and opposite amount of diverging views as we would have converging views. Like that of a double helix, we … Continue reading

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Anger v Sadness – Mania v Depression Explained

Here is a thought: The “greater we expect” (>e) by the “less we prepare” (<p) equals the “more we get angry” (a) >e x <p = a Or simply means we are in a state of delusion, mania and possibly … Continue reading

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