Author Archives: SpatzAI - Desmond Sherlock

If one believes in “forever” in a personal or business relationship, then surely one would have to believe in the sharing of our before’s. I mean how can you plan forever if you fail to share our befores. For example if … Continue reading →

I reckon that a lot of relationships run on the premise of a “Bank of Goodwill”. ie That you put into their bank and they put into your’s and if, for any reason, you let the other person down, your … Continue reading →

Most guys hit on girls (initiate), every day of the year in Australia. Most girls sit back and wait (passive) Even though women have gained equality, in principle, in most areas of their life, no one seems to be pushing for … Continue reading →

So how fair is fair enough? I guess it in the eyes (and ears) of the beholder. And one thing that I think is “fair enough” is that we are unlikely to find a perfect fairness. So agreeing to a … Continue reading →

So how do you think we can we reduce domestic violence (DV) in Australia? Here is my take on the question. This is my long term strategy, sorry, not a knee-jerk reaction to existing or near future bashings and murders. … Continue reading →

Exaggerated or uncontrollable emotion or excitement. An old-fashioned term for a psychological disorder characterized by conversion of psychological stress into physical symptoms (somatization) or a change in self-awareness (such as a fugue state or selective amnesia). If domestic violence was … Continue reading →

It is all so very topical now days to talk up domestic Violence (DV) and especially the blaming of men for it, with the statistics seemingly proving their apparent guilt as the sole cause and we know statistics don’t lie! … Continue reading →

Respect is not an easy word to define as a behavior but here is my attempt: I think respect is made up of a two parts, Content and Delivery. ie. What we say and how we say it. Neither are … Continue reading →

Every divorced relationship starts out in the same way, “successfully” or what appears to be a “success”. That is why they get married or choose to live together. Even relationships that end in murder started out the same way as … Continue reading →

The jury has just returned with its verdict and the decision is that: “No one deserves to be treated with anything less than perfection” Great news! But unfortunately we and our peers don’t make the rules. So, until further notice, it looks … Continue reading →