Category Archives: Agreements

Implicit Promises form Weak Agreements

It seems to me that agreements comprise of  at least two promises or personal pledges. The agreement is the ultimate connection between the two people making the agreed promises. And of course the agreed promises are only as good as the … Continue reading

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Disagreements

As I mentioned in my previous post, in my view it is disagreements and the lack of preparedness for them, that are the biggest cause of sadness and anger in business and personal relationships and ultimately lead to their breakup. … Continue reading

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Promise Vs Agreements

My favorite question at the moment is “what is the difference between a promise and an agreement?”, in an attempt and hope to get two definitions that will satisfy me . It has not been easy and I have not been satisfied … Continue reading

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The Agreement Agreement

We all know or should know that a relationship is made up of thousands of agreements and disagreements in its lifetime. So, one would think that if we are going to form such an arrangement that we would have a common … Continue reading

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Rethink Retry

Why does the term “It’s your fault” exist? It’s as if we are accused of owning errors. It is not my fault or your fault, it is a fault. It is just a flaw that has occurred during the process. … Continue reading

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My Mating Cycle

As we all know there is no manual on how the mating cycle works and not always does the greatest number rule. So, I thought I would share my mating cycle or call with you to get some feedback on it. … Continue reading

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Fair Game

  One of my favorite songs at the moment is by Sia, Fair Game  http://www.directlyrics.com/sia-fair-game-lyrics.html  But, in my view, if we to want to play a fair game or fairer game, we are going to have to make some, explicitly agreed to, … Continue reading

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Absolutely

I think I now know why I so hate the use of words like absolutely. When people use “I totally understand”, “exactly”, “you are absolutely right”, “perfect”, etc they are overly agreeing and then, when they are not really in agreement they … Continue reading

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Intuition Vs Ego

How do we tell the difference between our “intuition” and our “Ego”, if in fact there is one? Well, I need to be cautions here, as now I need to consider which part of me has asked this question and which part … Continue reading

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The Double Assumption

How about this for an agreement proposal? “Whoever assumes something AND then expects the other to assume also, loses the conversation.” I think this single sentence embodies everything that is in Rethink Perfect. For example: When someone states “You should know!” … Continue reading

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