Category Archives: Agreements

I have avoided kissing ass most of my life. Where I live is not as important to me, so I can avoid ass kissing there. I have mostly worked for myself also. At present I am in transit and have … Continue reading →

This is a tool I am suggesting as an approach to solving what I consider a problem in conversation. I call it a Direct Feedback Moment or DFM and I think it can be used once two people agree upon … Continue reading →

What about this for a new method of conversing Called DFM where, if I am talking to you we activate the DFM any time. That is Direct Feedback Mode. How it works: So the conversation is going along in parallel … Continue reading →

My mum reckons that I am still partly responsible for Thomas’s (my older brother) break up with Ann Marie, his girlfriend of a few months. Even though they got back together after the gold coast break up that both Tom … Continue reading →

Steve I did a bit of considering last night and came up with this. I think your Concept was that the letter was too long and also too familiar from someone that has never talked to the guy…”rude”. That once … Continue reading →

Right, so from now on to help you uphold your agreement and me uphold mine, I suggest if one of use feels like the other is trying to convert them we can distil the concept to its bare bones. That … Continue reading →

The desire to be always right is not a bad thing it just has a few cracks in it. And as Leonard Cohen says “There is a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in” and afterall it is … Continue reading →

Ego is not a dirty word, it is just the decision making process that we use to make our moment to moment decisions, I reckon. It is what lets us get some runs on the board or starts the ball … Continue reading →

Email to Hugh MacKay Author of “What Makes Us Tick? The ten desires that drives us.” from the ABC Big Page http://www.abc.net.au/rn/bigideas/stories/2010/3038586.htm Hi Hugh, I saw the last of your talk today on the ABC and once again I thought … Continue reading →

I met Shauna (26) the other night. Five foot tall, beautiful, petite blonde and drives a 40 tonne dump truck. She was telling me that I should not leave it “too late” to find someone. That I should “charm” women … Continue reading →